Franklin Wu

It just seems to me that women generally spend an inordinate amount of energy actively repelling men who are seemingly attacking like the barbarian hordes. Almost any attempt to approach a women is "creepy". Is there anything these days that isn't creepy? I would go so far as to say that women have had it with men and their behaviors to the point where it is completely dysfunctional and it is a miracle that anyone manages to meet these days. I wrote my own article on it.

https://franklinwuhoo.medium.com/have-women-completely-given-up-on-men-8ead16dae877

Do I have it right, or am I just crazy? What's the deal ladies? Is it really as bad as you are are all making it out to be? If so, is there any hope whatsoever?

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They missed the greatest fear of all - that women have entirely lost interest in men!

No, seriously, I wrote my own article about this elephant in the room that seems so obvious, yet no one mentions it.

https://franklinwuhoo.medium.com/have-women-completely-given-up-on-men-8ead16dae877

I'm curious if women agree that things have gotten so dysfunctional that a guy could have every confidence and advantage in the world and still be in the same boat as the men that worry about everything.

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It's simple. People get married because they are happy and they get divorced because they are "unhappy". Simple as that. Both the happy and unhappy state are "states of mind". While we might like to deny it, it is one of the few things that we fully control. So, if we are in the unhappy state, that is something that you actually "control". What this article shows is how all our "expectations" are what is leading us to the unhappy state and perhaps if we could just change our expectations, then we could get back to the "happy" state.

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Franklin Wu

Franklin Wu

Writing about relationships or the lack thereof.