I was surprised when the article ended. Just what were the things you should have taken accountability for? That would be helpful for those women who are currently encountering the same experiences that may be avoidable. The majority of divorces are initiated by women for exactly such reason. The problem with not "taking accountability" is that you may not see that the problem lies within and not outside and the first part of that is realizing that is being willing to admit that "i am part of the problem" and I have work to do. Blaming others and not taking any accountability will never fix "your" problems.