This is not about me or any other guy or about self-pity or about whining. This is about a general observation that most women don't like most men and this is a general societal problem which makes it very difficult to meet anyone. It is unrealistic to think that you can just improve yourself and wait for the women to come to you. No, you will still have to aggressively approach, but if you have a better story, then you may have a better chance. This is presuming you can get past "hello" in the first place.