Franklin Wu
1 min readJul 31, 2020

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What? That is the end of the story?

You know, as much as men are criticized for being "superficial" for wanting a really beautiful women, I think that women want this even more than men.

So, your perfectly loving guy doesn't think you're the most beautiful girl in the world - think about it, with all the access we have to the media, is this even realistic? Honestly, you might not be beautiful - and that hurts and it's the bitter truth, but so what?

If your guy takes care of you, makes you soup when you're sick but wasn't so superficial that he didn't break up with you because you're not "beautiful", then who is being superficial here? Just to be clear, we're talking "outside beauty" which is what this guy clearly meant.

For some guys, it can be a cold, hard, calculated decision to stay with you because of the value you bring to relationship, not just because you are eye candy.

Ladies, here is the secret that no guy will ever tell you. Sorry honey, there are lots of other women who are much more beautiful than you. (Come on, you know it is true). But you have to admire a guy who chooses you and commits to staying with you in spite of all the other distractions the mainstream media presents.

So, I say, stop being superficial, appreciate what you have and this isn't a Disney princess storyland.

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Franklin Wu
Franklin Wu

Written by Franklin Wu

Writing about relationships or the lack thereof.

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